I won the lottery and am wondering who to share it with. Um Hmmm. Another reason to focus on the person you’re with.
If I’m with you, and we’re talking, and your device dings or rings, and you decide to stop talking to me and focus your attention on your device, that’s fine, I got a lot going on too, I get it. But if you don’t excuse yourself, I’m peeved. Now let’s say it’s super important and my feelings of neglect are the least of your worries, I get that too. I’ve got kids and other important things going on too, and maybe I’m not as polite as I can be at all times. But if after dealing with your super important issue you scroll through your Instagram feed, well, then I’m peeved.